Do you know how to touch a girl?Have you affected her so much that she can not stop thinking about you?

Save me the details as to whether it was at the movies, your room or in the back of a car.

I just want to know if you have truly ever touched a girl?

Girls are special, they are not animals that focus on the physical.
She loves it when you kiss her on her neck, slowly hold her hands and giggles when you pin her down on the bed.

She likes it when you caress her face, when you run your hand through her hair and enjoys it when you place your hands around her waist

But while you are doing all this, do you think you are touching her?

Do you reach inside to her inner most parts?

To engrave your name across her heart
Just like God seeks to protect our hearts and save our souls, we should try to touch the heart and soul of the girl we want to love, claim to love or cherish with our whole heart.

To get through to a girl, you have to acknowledge her instead of notice her.
Do you understand that fragile is not her definition but an attribute she possess

Like a wine glass, she can be strong and fragile at the same time

Designed by her maker only to contain the contents she was made for

Would you buy a Bugatti to use as a storage room, filled to the door

Glass can be cold at the touch but warmed from the caress of a patient hand

If she was broken in the past, then you need to be a loving man

A man who understands that emotion is her portion, love and money are her ambitions

And even though she can on her own, she just needs you to fill her up and sip away the overflow when it gets too much
She is more than her appearance, and may or may not know it but still give her the reassurance

Use words such as beautiful and lovely sometimes,

Do not let the worlds standard uses of the words hot and sexy blind you to the fact that she is not a decoration but a vessel that embodies a soul that wishes to complete you
She is greater than sex or an object available merely to fulfill your desires

So note that intimacy is not always sexual

And sexual is better when consensual

But while we’re on the topic

May I shift your attention

A real man always lets her cum first

Satisfy her and she’ll quench your thirst

She does not seek perfection

She only requires her brand of affection

Whether it be slow and steady, rough and heavy or love of little words but filled with meaningful actions

A love that will bring her satisfaction
It is easy to touch her body, the challenge is touching her soul

Being the half that makes her whole

Every woman is unique, so what each requires is different

The only constant is that they need someone willing to put in the work

Someone who will make them feel enough

Irregardless of shape, size or ethnicity

So before you rush to touch her body

Learn how to truly touch a girl

I know your flaws and errorsYou are rough, vulgar

And don’t like sleeping alone

You are insecure when it matters

And even though you say I’m great

I feel you deserve better

And the first time we made love

It became evident

I’m now a resident

Trapped in your hearts abode
Started with a text from someone who shouldn’t have noticed me

And a response she should have never received

A few pictures back and forth,

Some clothes on, some clothes off

Plans of toes in the sand

You and I holding hands

But even though we knew we weren’t meant to be

We refuse to understand
Where there is smoke, there’s fire

So let’s seek the the flames our sparks created

And burn in the hell made from our sins

Live in the prison we created when we decided to fall while we belonged to others

Like fallen angels, you clipped your wings and made yourself a harlot

And I bear my soul to you instead of she who stood by me through a lot
We love after hours

Take secret showers

Feed off of cooked up lies we tell them to convince them that we are faithful

When I doubt the viability of our actions

You tell me it would be justified if she were more grateful

And when you wonder if we should continue

I pull your pants down and remind you size matters

And you recommit to our promises of temporary forevers
Subconsciously we both know what we doing is wrong

But right now we can’t spell the word adultery

It no longer registers in our vocabulary

We’re too busy with delusions of marriage, future plans and making a baby…
To be continued…

I hear the voice of fatherhood calling to me
It says son, your time is coming, be ready

The journey will not be easy

But hold on to your faith, 

This gift is not from man but from God and He will keep you steady

So I prepare and look forward to your conception

A new person deserving of affection
I pen this to the one I shall someday bring to this world

These are the promises I make to my unborn child

My daughter, my little girl

To be a better father than mine ever was

To be part of the moments you’ll never forget

To comfort you after every regret

I promise to teach you the lessons you shouldn’t learn on your own

And to remind you you’re a queen, own your throne
I pray you suffer no consequences for the sins of your father

And you will meet a man who will love you better than I treated girls before your mother

And if she and I are no longer together

Know that it has nothing to do with you but rather two stupid people who didn’t want to put in the work

You need to attain more than me

So I will work tirelessly

Like a man who can never have enough

Irregardless of circumstance

You will always be my greatest accomplishment
Besides her smile and her curvaceous features, 

Inherit her as your best friend

She brought you into my life but also into this world

Just as much as you are mine, you are her baby girl

And she thinks you are unique with that twinkle in your eyes

She will remind you that you are strong

That you’re beautiful

Please believe her because you will never concede to social norms

But that’s not your fault

Your problem with authority, is something you inherit from daddy
As I conclude this love letter to my daughter

I must address the matter of what if my girl is a boy

Then I will tell you son, this world ain’t easy

Women like your mother are rare

The world favors no man

And whether he or she I will teach you about God

Because besides education and money,

That is the greatest gift I can give you

Because when I have no answers

We will get on our knees and remember I am only borrowing you

And you like me, belong to our Father…